Reverend Donald Brislin

Pittsburg, PA Area Wedding Officiant 

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Civil Ceremony

Rev: Welcome, please be seated. We have come together to witness, (Groom) and (Bride) as they exchange their vows of marriage. We celebrate the love that they have discovered in each other and support their decision to commit themselves to one other for the rest of their lives.

As (Groom) and (Bride) enter into marriage, they do so with thought and reverence. They give thanks for the past, which has brought them to this place, and look forward with hope to what the future will bring.

Marriage symbolizes the ultimate bond between a man and a woman. This closeness should not diminish, but strengthen the individuality of each partner. A marriage that lasts is one that always has a little more to grow.

Today, (Groom) and (Bride), your celebration of human affection is an outward sign of a sacred and inward commitment. As you stand here in our presence, I remind you that a successful marriage is based on respect, honesty, loyalty and love.

Be kind to each other. When you disagree, do so with respect. The love that you have found together is a fragile gift. Always hold in your heart the feelings that you have at this moment. When there are difficult times, when you may doubt the validity of your love, look to each other for strength and bring yourselves back to this moment. Keep your hearts open to each other and remember why you have made the decision to become husband and wife.

Rev to Groom: (Groom), do you come here today, in the presence of these witnesses, with love in your heart and a conscious desire, to be united in marriage with (Bride)? Do you promise to share the responsibility for the growth and enrichment of your life together and to give to (Bride) all the loving support she needs to become the person she is destined to be?

Groom: I do.

Rev to Bride: (Bride), do you come here today, in the presence of these witnesses, with love in your heart and a conscious desire, to be united in marriage with (Groom)? Do you promise to share the responsibility for the growth and enrichment of your life together and to give to (Groom) all the loving support he needs to become the person he is destined to be?

Bride: I do.

Rev: May I please have the rings? The circle has frequently been used to symbolize eternity. Without flaw, it endlessly flows from any point where it begins. The ring, like a circle is a reminder of the perfection and endurance of (Groom) and (Bride)’s commitment and love for each other.

Rev to Groom: (Groom) please place this ring on Bride’s finger and repeat after me: (Bride), this ring I give you, is a symbol of my love for you. I pledge to share with you, my heart, my home and all that I have.

Rev to Bride: (Bride) please place this ring on Groom’s finger and repeat after me: (Groom), this ring I give you, is a symbol of my love for you. I pledge to share with you, my heart, my home and all that I have.

Rev: May your wedding rings be a visible sign of the promises that you have made to each other. May your lives be blessed with wisdom, good health, abundant miracles and prosperity. May you always cherish the love that you have found in each other. Protect your love; hold it safe in your hearts always.

(Groom) and (Bride) by stating your vows, you have publicly declared your commitment to each other. By the power invested in me by the State of New Jersey, I hereby declare you husband and wife.

You may kiss your bride.

It is my pleasure to introduce to you Mr. and Mrs. ____________________.